Smitten pensioner breaks girlfriend, 84, out of nursing home and goes on the run

Ralph Gibbs, 80, could face jail after going on the run when he busted long-time love Carol Lisle, 84, out of the home in Mandurah, Australia – driving her thousands of miles to Queensland

Ralph Gibbs and long-time love Carol Lisle couldn’t stand to be separated

A loved-up pensioner could face prison after breaking his girlfriend out of nursing home and driving 3,000 miles to bring her home.

Ralph ‘Terry’ Gibbs, 80, is at risk of being jailed after he took girlfriend Carol Lisle, 84, from the facility located in Mandurah, Australia.

He drove her across the sweltering Outback to Queensland on January 4 because they could be apart no longer.

The couple have been together for 15 years and he “acted out of love” after she was moved across the country by her family.

Two days after they left the facility, he was found with Lisle, who has dementia and Parkinson’s.

She was reportedly distressed when police found them deep in a desert in 43C heat – just 56 miles from the Northern Territory border dressed in the same clothes as she was in when she was first taken.

Carol Lisle has dementia and Parkinson’s and was found two days later


Western Australia Police)

The 84-year-old was taken 3,000 miles away to the home in Mandurah, Australia, by her family


Western Australia Police)

Lisle had originally been taken to Perth by her goddaughter last year while he was recovering from an illness in hospital. He said he just wanted to get her back home.

Police confirmed he was initially charged with deprivation of liberty and enduring life, but he pleaded guilty to a charge of unlawful detention on February 9.

Magistrate Raelene Johnston said sentencing Gibbs was not an “easy exercise” after the pensioner told Perth magistrates court that he was “acting out of love.”

On Friday, February 18, said it was clear that Gibbs just wanted to be with his partner of 15 years but added that his actions were “entirely misguided.”

She said: “I accept that you believe you were acting out of love and that you were acting out of care for your partner and that you wanted to be with her, and you believed that she wanted to be with you.

“But objectively your conduct was extremely dangerous, and the objective seriousness of your offense was made clear by the reactions of those people who observed you.”

She went on to explain to the court that his actions were premeditated as Gibbs had purchased a car, jerry cans of petrol and a map of the country just days before.

“You placed your personal desire over the welfare of your partner,” she added.

“You continued to place your wishes above her needs. You must have known you were struggling to look after her, yet you continued on your journey.

“Your conduct could have compromised her health. Given the extremely remote location you were found in.”

Johnston acknowledged that Gibbs had no previous convictions but said a jail sentence needed to be imposed despite his lawyer arguing that a fine would have been more appropriate.

Gibbs fears that he will never see his partner again after it was announced he would be sentenced to seven months’ jail, suspended for 12 months, with a two-year restraining order.

“I have been fighting for a year to get her back so we can see each other because she has dementia and may not last much longer,” he said outside of court.

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